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Cursing, fighting, gangs, lazy children, lazy parents, work ethics, spanking, etc. There is a lot that can be said about the topics listed above. The results of conversations and observations have resulted in a piece that is quite informative, compelling and "thought-provoking" for both those who are trying to elevate themselves in life and those who did not realize that they were "stuck " in a place they never thought they would be. Many people have ideas of what they "think" is the correct approach to various situations. Sometimes those ideas are exactly correct. However, what we have found time and time again is that many of us have "issues" that cause problems with the decisions that we choose to make in life. Sometimes there are family issues and sometimes the issues arise from our environment or our associates. But "always" it is our choice as to how we, adults and young adults, deal with situations. However, it is unfortunate that the our children have to deal with our "rocking boat" and go in any direction that it goes. It is our history and our present choices that determine many of the paths that we take, the type of influence we have on others, and whether we have our "pants hanging down" as we travel into various places in our lives. Pants Hanging Down , the name of the literary work by Gene Stubbson, touches on the subjects of child rearing, government assistance, professional athletics, music, cursing, the N-word and much more. Here are some questions for all of you. Press "Comments" to add yours to the blog.

What comes to mind when you think about someone whose "pants are hanging down"?

What do you think about tattoos on men and women?

Should schools begin "spanking" or "paddling" children again?

What is your opinion of the words, B---h and "H", in reference to women?

Have you been called one lately or at all? Describe the scenarios.

Are you a stepparent? If so, how much freedom do you have with regard to discipline of your stepchild?

Is the man you're dealing with a "sorry" man?

What is your feeling when you hear the N-word being used?

Is rap music a "reflection of society" or does it "influence society"?